Eyona asethi ibalulekileyo ebomini kamama: abantwana bakhe
Kwihlabathi lentabalala yezinto eziphathekayo nezisoloko zitshintsha, obona butyebi buxabisekileyo kamama bubomi bakhe.umntwana. Olu nxibelelwano lunzulu ludlula imida yobutyebi, iwonga, kunye nolindelo loluntu kwaye luquka uthando olungaguqukiyo, oluguqulayo. Njengoko sibhiyozela undoqo wokuba ngumama, kubalulekile ukuqonda iindlela ezingenakubalwa apho umntwana atyebisa ubomi bukamama.
Ukususela kumzuzu wokukhulelwa, ubomi bukamama buyatshintsha ngokungenakuguqulwa. Ukulindela ubomi obutsha kuzisa uvuyo, ithemba kunye nenjongo. Njengoko umntwana wakhe ekhula, uthando lukamama nalo luyatshintsha, luvela kukungalali ebusuku, amanyathelo okuqala, kunye neziganeko ezingenakubalwa. Umzuzu ngamnye wokukhulisa nokukhokela umntwana bubungqina bamandla kanina nokomelela.
Uphando lwakutshanje lubonisa ukuba iqhina eliphakathi koomama nabantwana linempembelelo enkulu kwimpilo-ntle yabo bobabini. Abantwana banika oomama ithuba lokuzazi ukuba bangoobani yaye baphumeze okuthile, ngokufuthi besebenza njengamandla aqhuba amabhongo abo. Ukubuyisela, oomama babethelela imilinganiselo, ubulumko nothando oluxonxa isizukulwana esilandelayo. Obu budlelwane bubuyiselana bubutyebi obungenakulinganiswa.
Ukongeza, imiceli mngeni abajongene nayo oomama, ukusuka ekulungelelaniseni umsebenzi kunye nosapho ukuya ekujongeni ubunzima bokuba ngumzali, ilwenza nzulu olu manyano. Ngokufuthi oomama bazifumanisa bengabameli babantwana babo, belwela amalungelo abo nentlalo-ntle yabo kwihlabathi elikhohlakeleyo nelingabaxoleliyo.
Njengoko sicinga ngokubaluleka kobu budlelwane, kubalulekile ukubhiyozela nokuxhasa oomama kwihlabathi jikelele. Ukuzinikela kwabo kunye nokuzinikela sisiseko apho izizukulwana ezizayo zikhulela phezu kwaso. Ekugqibeleni, elona lifa libalulekileyo likamama asizozinto eziphathekayo, kodwa kukuhleka, uthando, kunye nelifa labantwana bakhe.
Ixesha lokuposa: Dec-31-2024