Umama onesitayile wabelane ngengcebiso "yengqondo" ukwenza ihlobo lakho libukeke "ligqibelele" kuyo yonke impahla - kwaye kubiza kuphela iirandi ezimbalwa.
Umama oza kuba ngumama, oza kuzalwa kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, uye wafumanisa iqhinga elikrelekrele lokuvala amaqhuma engono ngokuvala ingono. Weza nalo mbono njengoko wayesokola ukufumana impahla eza kumenza azive ekhululekile kwaye ezithembile.
“Ndidikiwe kukuba neentloni kuba iingono zam zivela empahleni yam,” uyachaza umama. Ndandifuna nje ukunxiba isinxibo endisithandayo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngaso, ngoko ndaqalisa ukucinga ngendlela endinokwenza ngayo ukuba sibonakale ‘sigqibelele’ ngakumbi kuyo yonke impahla.”
Emva kokuzama kunye nephutha elithile, umama wafumana isisombululo esifanelekileyo - isigqubuthelo esilula sengono. Yenziwe kwi-silicone ethambileyo kunye neyolukileyo, isigqubuthelo sihlala sikhuselekile kwingono, sisusa i-indentation kunye nokudala ukubukeka okungenamthungo phantsi kweengubo.
“Andizange ndiyikholelwe indlela esebenza kakuhle ngayo,” watsho umama. “Sisixhobo esincinci kwaye esifikelelekayo, kodwa yenze umahluko omkhulu kwindlela endiziva ngayo malunga neengono zam eziphakanyisiweyo. Ekugqibeleni ndinganxiba iimpahla ezindibambayo ngaphandle kokuziva ndixhalabile.”
Umama wabelane ngezinto azifumeneyo kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo kwaye wakhawuleza wanconywa ngezakhono zakhe “zobuchule” bokuqweqwedisa ngumama oza kuba ngugxa wakhe. Oomama abaninzi abakhulelweyo bayavuma ukuba banengxaki efanayo kwaye banomdla wokuzama ukuvala ingono ngokwabo.
“Andizange ndicinge ukuba ndingasifumana isicombululo kule ngxaki, kodwa ngoku andinakulinda ukuyizama,” ubhale watsho omnye owagqabaza. "Enkosi ngokwabelana ngale ngcebiso imangalisayo!"
Iziqwenga zengono zingathengwa kwivenkile yethu kwaye ziyafumaneka kwiitoni ezahlukeneyo zesikhumba ukuze zitshatise iitoni zesikhumba ezahlukeneyo. Yenzelwe ukuba iphinde isetyenziswe kwaye inokuhlanjwa lula kwaye inxitywe amaxesha amaninzi.
Ukukhulelwa kuzisa utshintsho oluninzi emzimbeni, kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba oomama abakhulelweyo bazive bengakhululekanga ngotshintsho. Ukufumana iindlela zokuziva ukhululekile kwaye uzithembile kulusu lwabo kunokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwimpilo yabo yonke.
“Ndiyathemba ukuba ngokwabelana ngale ngcebiso, ndinokunceda abanye oomama ukuba bazive bekhululekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabo,” utshilo umama. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphi na ebomini, kubalulekile ukuziva wonwabile ngesiqu sakho.
Njengoko oomama beqhubeka befumana ingqalelo kumaqhinga abo achuliweyo, kuyacaca ukuba oomama abaninzi abaza kuba banomdla wokuzivavanya ngokwabo. Ngeencasa zengono, oomama abakhulelweyo banokujongeka kwaye bazive bengcono kuzo zonke iimpahla ngaphandle kokuchitha imali eninzi.
Ixesha lokuposa: Mar-08-2024